While multi-generational
living is normal in many cultures, in some countries such as Britain and the
US, it isn’t very usual. However, homes where grandparents live with their
children and their families in the same house are becoming more common in these
countries because of the economic climate. Here, the members of one extended
family explain how it works for them.
Georgina – Anna’s grandmother
I was really pleased when my son wanted to move back home. I love
spending time with Anna, my granddaughter. She’s a lovely little girl at the
minute – so happy and affectionate – everybody who meets her likes her. It will
be wonderful to watch her grow up. I think even my unsociable husband is
enjoying it! We eat together twice a week and, once a month, we have a family
conference – my husband and I, my son and his wife – to discuss how things are
going. We try to respect each other’s space. Having my son here makes me less
anxious about the future, too. At the moment, we’re healthy, but in a few years
we’re going to need more help.
Esther – Anna’s mother
Actually, it’s all working out well! My mother-in-law remembers what
it’s like to have young children, so she’s very patient with Anna and
sympathetic to me when I’m tired. She often just says: ‘Go and rest. I’ll look
after her’. I think she wants to give advice about what Anna eats and what time
she goes to bed, but she usually says nothing! And occasionally I ask her
opinion and find her ideas are really sensible. We are all learning to be quite
honest with each other, which I think is a good thing.
Chris – Anna’s grandfather
I prefer a quiet life and a tidy house, and I think young people
should be independent, but my wife loves having the family here. From a selfish
point of view, it’s good for me too because Georgina is quite talkative and now
she can chat to her daughter-in-law. I think it’s a very satisfactory situation
for everyone concerned!
Alan – Anna’s father
I was worried because my mother can be bossy, but actually, she is
being sensitive and we’re lucky to have a reliable babysitter in the house! My
dad is sometimes moody, but he’s very affectionate with Anna. We’re planning to
buy our own house in a couple of years, but I think we’ll stay near my parents
because the relationship between Anna and her grandparents is so special.
Example: More
people are living in extended families in Britain than before.
A
True cü B
False c C Doesn’t say
c
1 Georgina
thinks that Anna is charming.
A True c B False c C Doesn’t say
c
2 The
family meets to talk about how they are getting on once a month.
A True c B False c C Doesn’t say
c
3 Esther
gets very impatient with Georgina because she talks a lot.
A True c B False c C Doesn’t say
c
4 Chris
is happy that Georgina has a good relationship with Esther.
A True c B False c C Doesn’t say
c
5 Chris
thinks that they need a bigger house.
A True c B False c C Doesn’t say
c
6 Alan
is always kind to his mother.
A True c B False c C Doesn’t say
c
7 Alan
says that they are going to live with his parents for many years.
A True c B False c C Doesn’t say
c
READING KEY
ReplyDelete1 A
2 A
3 C
4 A
5 C
6 C
7 B
tanks man veri helpful ;)
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